Put on your finest black Willie Nelson T-shirt, cause we're going to a funeral!
abstew here continuing our coverage of Jane & Lily Grace and Frankie. After being separated from their recently gay (well, to our leading ladies at least) and recently shacked-up husbands, the gals must come face-to-face with their estranged spouses for the first time since the first episode. And because they're of a certain age, the gathering naturally happens at a funeral (it's like clubbing for retirees). And nothing says comedy quite like a funeral setting (unless it stars Hugh Grant and is preceded by 4 weddings) and this episode proves it by carrying some pretty heavy dramatic moments and a breakdown from Martin Sheen that shouldn't have made me laugh as much as it did (since he was actually going for heartfelt drama).
The episode begins with Grace interrupting Frankie's art class with ex-cons so that the two can get to the funeral of their mutual friend Larry before Sol and Robert arrive for their "coming out party".
The ladies spend most of the episode avoiding the men until the end when Robert realizes how much he misses Grace and the way she lights up a room, knowing just how to behave. The two spouses confront each other and Grace blurts out how she's "stuck" with Frankie, just as she walks by to hear it. It's an especially harsh statement as it seems like the odd couple are finally bonding and appreciating each other. Luckily the two women leave together and hopefully the strides they've made in understanding each other haven't been damaged.
Best Jane Moment:
Dressed in an "ass-hugging" LBD to remind everyone that she's still got it (or in her words to make them think, "What a waste.") Grace is finding that her feet are suffering for her beauty.
Frankie: Why don't you take those damned high heels off?
Grace: Because they're part of this...
Best Lily Moment:
For some reason I thought it was hilarious when Tomlin delivered her line of exasperation "Sweet muscular Jesus" when Sol and Robert make their way ahead of her to pay their respects to Larry's widow Sally.
Best Lily and Jane Moment together:
Frankie: I've waited in line for over an hour, now that we're at the front, you're not even here.
Grace: I needed some time alone. It was a lot to process.
Frankie: I can see you out the window drinking a martini with Lydia.
Grace: Are you spying on me?
Frankie: Yes, Miss Marple, I've been tailing you all day from inside a plant...I can see you making that blah, blah gesture!
Yes! This is what we want more of: Funny banter between Lily and Jane! They play so well off each other and they're not even in the same room.
Guest Star Alert:
It's Emmy, Oscar, and Golden Globe award-winning actress and filmmaker Christine Lahti as Robert's sister Lydia.
I never saw her on Chicago Hope. (I tend to avoid shows about doctors, cops, and lawyers. Which is basically every drama on television. There's gotta be other professions!) But when I think of Christine Lahti, I always remember when she was in the bathroom when she won her Best Actress Golden Globe for the show and nearly missed giving her speech. And then the next year when she presented, she had toilet paper stuck to her shoe. Nothing like a year-later callback. That Lahti plays the long game with comedy.
Double-Headed Phallic Vase Shot
Anne Marie is right - they're everywhere!
Rating: C Is anyone else as disappointed in this show as I am? And this episode in particular just could not balance the sitcomy one-liners with its sappy revelations about relationships and partners. It was like a very special episode of Full House. In trying to make us laugh and cry all at once, I'm not sure what to feel exactly. And for some reason this show keeps insisting that we care about Sol and Robert, but it comes at the expense of our Jane and Lily time. And this episode gave way too much screentime to Sheen and Waterston (who I just don't buy as a couple). All I know is I want this series to actually be about, you know, Grace and Frankie and stop giving such equal footing to Sol and Robert - I'm never gonna care!