Wednesday
Apr102019
Happy National Siblings Day!
Wednesday, April 10, 2019 at 5:15PM
by Mark Brinkerhoff
“I bequeath all my beauty to my younger sister Joan, because she has none.”
- Olivia de Havilland, according to her “will,” age nine
Apocryphal? Who can say. Delicious? 100 percent!
Though chronicled to death (at TFE and elsewhere), the purported feud between the most famous siblings of Hollywood’s Golden Age endures like no other. Why? Because it seems silly and pointless in retrospect, as most sibling rivalries and familial angst do. But rather than dwell on the negative, let’s turn our attention to more positive outpourings of mutual love and respect, shall we?
Here are 10 of the more famous (in some cases infamous) siblings over the years on the ties that bind—and unbind—them to each other, not to mention the public’s imagination...
“My sister came to my rescue several times, emotionally, and I’m glad for that. We have a very close relationship.”
- Peter Fonda on sister Jane (circa 1989)
“The difference between us is sex. I can take it or leave it. But my kid brother ... well, now, he enjoys his reputation. Sex is the most important thing in his life. It's his hobby, you could say.” -
Shirley MacLaine on brother Warren Beatty
“It’s not a competition. It’s like we’re on the same team.”
- Jeff Bridges on brother Beau (circa 2014)
“Jamie, I have nothing without you. You are the strongest, most amazing man that I have ever known, and I love you.”
- Angelina Jolie to brother James Haven (circa 2000)
“Luckily my sister and I know that [acting isn’t everything.] While it may be both of our passions, it is just a job at the end of the day.”
- Kate Mara on sister Rooney and their shared interest (circa 2014)
“I was just always very careful to separate my image and my work life from his. [But] Liev and I have a really nice relationship. He’s an incredibly talented actor, and I look up to him a lot.”
- Pablo Schreiber on his brother Liev (circa 2011)
“What's interesting is that Maggie knows how much the choices that I make reflect what's going on in my life. Admittedly, probably, as my sister, and as someone who loves me—like, she can't wait to see me become a father.”
- Jake Gyllenhaal on sister Maggie (circa 2015)
“I’d say she’s always good in everything. Seriously, I think it’s true!”
- John Cusack on sister Joan (circa 2017)
“My sister and I truly are best friends.”
- Solange Knowles on her and her sister Beyoncé’s relationship
"To me, Alexis was really my great vanguard. I think, truthfully, every single trans person in the United States is a vanguard because it's a very difficult life to live.”
- Patricia Arquette on her late sister, Alexis (circa 2017)
As someone with four siblings of my own, let me say that appreciating our brothers and/or sisters while we have them, for as long as we have them (and they us), can be its own reward. The 2000 film/masterpiece, You Can Count on Me, sums it up beautifully:
I’m really glad you’re home.”
Reader Comments (19)
how come there are not that many sibling movies? You Can Count on Me is fantastic and the best thing imo Lonergan/Linney?Ruffalo have made in their prolific careers. More sibling dramas please.
When Peter Fonda became a great star around the sixties and seventies Olivia De Havilland and Joan Fontaine's career were no longer in full swing for a long time. Today Peter Fonda is best remembered as Henry's son, Jane's brother and Bridget's father, and we keep talking about De Havilland and Fontaine - their lives, their films and their feud. Currently Angelina Jolie and Beyoncé are two stars. In the future, if they're lucky, the two will be footnotes, and we will still be talking about Olivia and Joan - their lives, their films and their feud.
John's right: Joan's good in everything, even when the rest of the movie isn't.
Murtada:
IN HER SHOES with Cameron Diaz and Toni Collette is an amazing sibling movie!!
More shows on siblings?? Hmmm, does Games o Throne count?? 😂
Little Women is a pretty famous, much-filmed sibling drama.
I like The Skeleton Twins with Kirsten Wiig. My relationship with one of my sisters (we were one year apart) was very similar to the one depicted in the movie (singing songs together as a duo, including the very specific song used in the movie).
I agree with “Me.” In Her Shoes is an outstanding, completely undervalued film. Toni and Cameron are mind blowing together.
I’m here for the “In Her Shoes” love! Diaz and Collette are phenomenal in that!
When i watch the title i inmediatelly think in the Gyllenhaals. Both are so talented and beautiful, they are my favorites.
And talking about siblings in movies Anne Hathaway and Rosemarie DeWitt plays to perfection the relationship between brothers/sisters in Rachel Getting Married.
Ditto the In Her Shoes love. Collette, MacLaine, and especially Diaz all should have gotten Oscar nominations.
Hannah and Her Sisters is a terrific examination of sibling friendship and rivalry. The scene in which the three of them have lunch is fantastic.
Isn't Whatever Happened to Baby Jane the ultimate siblings picture?
Yep, Joan Cusack IS good in everything. I can't think of a film where she at least wasn't giving it her all.
Shoutout to some of the higher profile writing/directing siblings:
The Wachowskis
Allen and Albert Hughes
Anthony and Joe Russo
Bobby and Peter Farrelly
Joe and Herman Mankiewicz
and, of course, Joel and Ethan Coen!
While we're adding sibling movies, shout out for Crimes of the Heart.
Wait, why hasn't anyone mentioned August Osage County (perhaps because it wasn't that good...but surely it's all about siblings)
Watch the movie Hermano. Terrific and heartbreaking.
Thought for sure that the Coen Bros would be on here. The Wachowskis? The Duffer Bros? So many great sibling duos? And if we're including entire families, how about the Wayans? But you could pick any two bros (Keenan & Damon, Shawn & Marlon), or even father/son lol (Damon Sr. and Damon Jr.)!