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April Showers: Blue Valentine

In April Showers, Team TFE looks at our favorite waterlogged moments in the movies. Here's Kieran Scarlett on Blue Valentine (2010).

What are you doing?

-What does it look like I'm doing?

Getting all wet and naked.

A shower scene between two clearly beautiful lovers (even with the aging makeup) has rarely felt less erotic and more heartbreaking. This exchange manages to perfectly illustrate the tragic state of Dean (Ryan Gosling) and Cindy’s (Michelle Williams) relationship in Derek Cianfrance’s modern masterpiece, Blue Valentine. Dean is still obliviously playful, too willing to overlook the realities of his disintegrating marriage in favor of ham-handedly ginning up passion and romance. Cindy feels trapped and hopeless, unable to seek refuge from her husband’s obtuse adulation even in the shower. Her voice drips with the weary impatience often heard in response to a child’s incessant questioning, which frankly is not too dissimilar to how Cindy regards Dean at this point. It’s very much an extension of the first time we see Cindy. She’s lying in bed in the early hours of the morning. Her husband and young daughter, very much equals in their oppressive childlike exuberance bound in and snap her from the slumber into the harsh reality that is this life in which she has found herself.

The traditional (and very valid) reading of Blue Valentine’s two-ply structure (the birth of a romance intercut with its slow, painful death) is that Dean and Cindy have lost something. Their love, once ideal and passionate has been suffocated under the stresses of parenthood and a whirlwind courtship turned into a long marriage. However, there are clear indications in the earlier years that bumps in the road litter their future. Dean wants to be whatever Cindy needs him to be, but lacks the motivation or introspection to figure out how to do so. And Cindy, still unsure of herself can’t begin to know exactly what it is she needs from Dean.

As satisfying as it is to watch them fall in love in their earliest interactions, this is clearly the dynamic from the beginning. As deeply enamored with one another as they are, Dean and Cindy enter each other's lives as solutions to a problem. This problem is bigger than her unremarkable relationship with the lug, Bobby Ontario (Mike Vogel), her eventual pregnancy or her desire to leave her abusive father’s house. It's bigger than Dean's aimlessness paired destructively with his need to be a savior. It’s a problem neither of them can identify, which makes the solution frustratingly out of reach.

So, in this moment, Dean and Cindy take a shower that’s anything but romantic. In the “future room” of this kitschy lovers’ motel, it’s the last gasp of a romance that may well have no future at all. Only a past, looked back upon with unreliable rose-colored glasses and a present where these two lovers, once white hot with passion, can hardly seem to look at each other. Even in the confines of a shower.

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Reader Comments (11)

Great post, I enjoyed your reading of their relationship.

This is a movie I'm surprised more people don't talk about; a modern masterpiece indeed.

April 7, 2016 | Unregistered CommenterMDA

The best film of 2010. Michelle Williams and Ryan Gosling both deserved Oscars...I think it's really weird the critics groups didn't champion them at all.

April 7, 2016 | Unregistered CommenterMike M.

I go back and forth between this and Another Year for my favourite film of 2010.

April 7, 2016 | Unregistered CommenterRoger

Such a damn great film with two incredible performances. Hoping to see both of them in awards consideration more.

April 8, 2016 | Unregistered CommenterRyan T.

It was a crime that Gosling wasn't nominated that year. Really showed the Academy's favoritism towards younger women and simultaneous bias against younger men.

April 8, 2016 | Unregistered Commentertonytr

Do Flashdance!

April 8, 2016 | Unregistered CommenterEz

Great movie. I appreciate being treated like an adult.

April 8, 2016 | Unregistered CommenterPeggy Sue

Williams hands in this scene show some great body acting.

April 8, 2016 | Unregistered Commentermark

the best closing credits ever!!!

April 8, 2016 | Unregistered CommenterDAVID

My favorite film of 2010.

April 8, 2016 | Unregistered Commenterbrandz

This is a great movie--Williams and Gosling as both sublime.

I might be mistaken but I've had the impression that Williams is not a favorite around here, or she's lost some steam career-wise? I love her and have been missing her on-screen. BV and Wendy and Lucy pretty much cemented me as a lifelong fan.

April 9, 2016 | Unregistered CommenterJoe

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